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[Dec. 1st, 2009|01:48 pm] |
Presenting a new addition to my wall. A friend gave it to me, all printed on a piece of paper in my favourite colour and framed up. How thoughtful. It is none other than the "Assertive Bill of Rights".
I HAVE THE RIGHT...- To be responsible for my own life.
- To accept and respect myself and others.
- To feel happy, satisfied, and to allow inner peace.
- To take good care of my whole being: my body, my mind and my spirit.
- To be imperfect.
- To be aware of and fulfill my own needs.
- To have dreams, goals and ideals - and to make them happen.
- To have and express all my emotions.
- To tell others how I want to be treated.
- To allow people to help me without feeling guilty, unworthy or dependent.
- To set my own priorities about my use of time, money, space and energy.
- To get what I pay for.
- To have healthy, life-enhancing relationships, where clear communication is valued - to make conscious decisions to change relationships.
- To change, emerge, expand in new directions.
- To have my own beliefs, ideas, values without apology to anyone.
- To live in the present moment, free of guilt in the past and worry for the future.
- To relax, to let go, to "do" nothing.
I've highlighted my favourites. Enjoy! |
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| WAIT A MINUTE |
[Nov. 20th, 2009|04:21 am] |
Look here people. I am not going to surrender and let you think that I am depressed.
Yes I'm living alone and im fending for myself.
Yes, my grandmother did pass away and I did not get to say goodbye.
Yes, my boyfriend of 3 years left.
But I am still here. I am still standing strong. I am still getting distinctions (if not higher) for my assignments. I still hold a $20/hr job. I still have my friends that I care about both in Australia and Singapore.
When i stopped blogging privately, or deactivating my facebook, that doesnt mean im running away into a cave and be all depressed and crying. I just dont want YOU to get your dirty noses into my business.
Furthermore, I am in freaking Sydney and i am single and I see the world in a whole new fresh different perspective and the sky is my limit and i KNOW what i want and i am going to achieve it and no one can stop me. So seriously, don't worry about me. I am a strong girl I can take care of my own ass.
Salut. |
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| Bleargh |
[Nov. 12th, 2009|11:31 am] |
Last 3 weeks of the semester! I've been busy with reports, essays and work. And obviously have no time for this space. So you'll hear from me when I get home to Singapore yeah? And those who fear my arrival, 642km squares is big enough for you to hide.
Langkawi with Nunu and Zarina coming up in January.
Yeah Yeah Yeahs concert too!
Mummy dearest is taking leave in January too!
Eating all the glorious food to make up for the weight I've lost!
I simply cannot wait to spend time with the people who actually matter.
And i bought a one-way ticket back to Sydney. Im not coming back for a long long time...
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